Ashley and Lillian Grace Denby Update: 3/30/2010

In the great outdoors...

Lillian Grace continues to grow and flourish: she now weighs just over 14 pounds, loves to smile and laugh and sticks her tongue out at all and sundry. Ashley and Josh take her outside regularly; she loves to ride in her stroller, particularly if the path is bumpy. When you put her down on her back, she’ll do one of two things: either try to eat her feet or roll over and try to crawl. Sometimes she sleeps through the night and sometimes she doesn’t; however, her appetite never flags.

Resting from my labors....

Ashley met her surgeon and plastic surgeon today. She will have surgery Wednesday, April 6th, to remove a large area around and underneath the site of her melanoma; the tissue removed will be biopsied at the margins to ensure that they have removed all the cancer (if not, she’ll have to go back to have more tissue removed); then the plastic surgeon will take skin from her thigh and make a skin graft to cover the wound. Her surgeon also discovered another mole on her scalp that he will remove at the same time and have biopsied. The surgeon will also conduct a couple of tests using isotopes and dyes to help determine whether the cancer has spread to her lymph nodes: he’ll remove any suspicious areas and have them biopsied: the results take about a week; if they are positive for cancer, she’ll face further surgery and additional therapies.

Her surgeon (Dr Albo of the Baylor Clinic) expects that she will take about 7 to 10 days to recover from this first surgery (she’ll have some pain and will have to protect the healing wound). She may be able to come home the day of the surgery, though she may also have to spend a night in the hospital.

Thanks for your prayers and support.

Saturday in the Park

Today my mom and dad took me for a walk at the Houston Arboretum. It’s a great place for a nap.

 

Me and my Chauffeur...

All this spring air makes a girl drowsy...

 

 

Pink Girl

 

Sometimes I feel like a princess...

...and sometimes I feel like a dancer...

... and always I like pink!

My great-grandmother Joan gave me this dress!

 

Ashley and Lillian Grace Denby

Dear blog and email friends,

Lillian Grace is 7 and 1/2 months — 226 days — old and doing very well. She’s been off of oxygen support for over 3 weeks, can roll herself over from back to stomach and (usually) from stomach to back. She’s trying to crawl, but without success — yet. She’s almost 14 pounds and has plenty of good baby fat.

She went yesterday and visited some of her earliest and dearest friends, the NICU nurses and staff at Memorial Hermann Southwest. She had a great time and smiled and showed off for them. They in turn admired how she has grown and were thrilled to see her without tubes or wires: where Lillian is today is in no small part due to their love and superb professional care.

After that visit, Ashley, Lillian’s mom, went to see the surgeon who, a few weeks ago, removed a growth from her back. Although not long after Lillian was born she had had a biopsy of the growth which indicated it was benign, her surgeon had this re-biopsied and the biopsy revealed that it was a melanoma.

Ashley went to see an oncologist today. She has a level 4 nodular melanoma, the most aggressive form of melanoma. As of right now, her cancer is considered to be at Stage 2. She will have her lymph nodes tested next week to see if it’s spread. At the least, she will have additional surgery to remove another 2 cm or so of tissue around where the melanoma was removed; if tests determine that the cancer has spread, she’ll have additional therapies.

Right now, she’s a little shell-shocked, but overall pretty positive: she thinks she’s got a good oncologist and they’re going to tackle this aggressively.

We’ve been sustained by your prayers and support throughout Lillian’s trials and humbly ask for them again for Ashley, her wonderful husband Josh, and for Lillian as they meet this new challenge.

Some of my best friends: NICU staff at Memorial Hermann Southwest

More of my best friends: NICU staff at Memorial Hermann Southwest

Wearing of the Green

 

Happy St Patrick's Day!

 

 

A 7 Month-Old Girl

 

Lillian Grace: 7 Months of Joy

 

In my Bumbo Baby Seat

 

 

 

Baby Blue Eyes: 3/3/2011

 

Rhapsody in Blue

 

Me and my Pops

Happy girl

 

 

 

3 Months Adjusted Age!

Enjoying the spring weather on my balcony

 

Mom better be listening to me...